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It's Self-Love Season: Here are the Valentine's Day Gifts You Can't Miss!

Hello February!

This month has been insane to say the least. The constant terrifying and heartbreaking news cycle has been really getting to me, and making it harder to stay focused on the positives and daily joys in life. I’ve been trying to remind myself to just tune out more to protect my mental health and the energy surrounding me, and try to focus on all the things that I’m privileged to have and incredibly grateful for.

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and this year is all about self-love, whether you are partnered or single, so make sure you treat yourself and show yourself all the love you deserve. I rounded up some of the gifts of the season, and things that are helping me take care of myself in these crazy times.

Here are a few of my favorite self-care themed Valentine’s gifts you should add to your list!

5 Valentine's Day Gifts You Can't Miss!

Urban Decay Tube Job Mascara

I still love cluster lashes, but it seems the trend is fading and they may be going out of style, and personally the damage they have done to my natural lashes is very real. I just started using Urban Decay’s Tube Job Mascara, and let me tell you – they did their big one with these! The formula just glides on and leaves your lashes looking long and lush, without any of the damage that comes with lash extensions.

 This mascara is perfect for your every day glam, and holds up all day without running or smudging.

The formula comes in black, brown, and a daring platinum blonde that would be perfect for a high fashion look. And paired with their 24/7 Liquid Stick liquid eyeliner which comes in all these colors, your eye makeup will be unstoppable.

And I never got over the Urban Decay 24/7 Glaze-On Shimmer Liquid Eyeshadow and All Nighter Setting Spray, so be sure to add those to cart when you get to shopping!

Viqure Lumirea Photofacial

I recently partnered with Viqure to review the Lumirea Photofacial Device, and this post isn’t sponsored - I just wanted to give an update after using it!

This tiny tool is a powerful and effective at-home light therapy tool designed to address multiple skin concerns commonly associated with aging. It uses a combination of 530-650 wavelength light (DPL) and 900-1800 wavelength light (NIR) to promote smoother, brighter, and more youthful-looking skin.

Unlike traditional LED devices that use a single wavelength, Lumirea’s dual-light approach targets different layers of the skin to support collagen production and cellular repair. This makes it more versatile—and potentially more effective—than cheaper at home devices.

With consistent use, this little thing will help address a variety of skin issues, like fine lines and wrinkles, uneven skin tone, dullness and texture irregularities, and improve overall skin vibrancy and resilience.

It is a little expensive, but if facials are in your budget regularly, you can skip those and this will be more than worth the investment. And you can use my code Malikah15 for 15% off the product!

Quince Cashmere and Silk

Stepping away from beauty for a minute, its freezing out there! And nothing says warm, cozy and luxury like a brand new cashmere sweater. I’ve been obsessed with Quince since I first got my husband one for Christmas.

I got their famous $50 cashmere sweater and to be honest was not impressed because it was super thin and you could completely see through it, so I did return that one. But I decided to try their heavier weight Fisherman Crewneck Sweater which was $99 and that was a world of difference. Obviously $50 is an amazing price for a cashmere sweater, but to me, it looked like a $50 sweater. The fisherman sweaters are $119 for the turtleneck and $99 for the crewneck, but they look like $300 or more, and they definitely give that quiet luxury look!

I love a cream turtleneck, but my makeup would never let me be great, so I got the turtleneck in black and the crewneck in cream. I also got coordinating washable silk skirts, the midi length was just $69.90 and the mini was $59.90 and I think these are some super cute and stylish winter looks.


Cecred Oil Ritual

Moving on to hair! If you have been following me for a while, you know I’m almost always in braids or a weave, but since September I decided to just give them and focus on the health of my hair and learning how to properly style and maintain it.

I ignored Cecred for a while since I truly thought it was all hype, but since I started regularly using the products after buying a bundle on sale, I have to say I am obsessed. My wash and style time is down to 2-3 hours start to finish for a silk press on my type 4 hair, and my strands feel hydrated the full 7-10 days between washes.

My hands down favorite product in the line is the Cecred Oil Ritual. I apply it to dry hair, sit under my steamer for about 20 minutes, then wash and deep condition. Not only do I love how this makes my hair look and feel, I love the ritual behind and the reminder to spend the extra time taking care of myself.

It is expensive, and I do use a lot of oil each time so it doesn’t last more than 4 or 5 washes, but for me and my healthy hair and length retention journey it is worth it!


Anecdote Candles

And the last thing on my list – you can’t have a self-care day without some candles, and my current favorite brand is Anecdote Candles. They are a small brand that designed candles inspired by trending moments and personal memories, all hand-poured in Brooklyn NY.

Bottomless Mimosas has been a long time favorite of mine for the bright citrus scent, and I also keep Mid-Century Modern and Pool Party in the rotation. I also grabbed a few travel sized tins of new scents I wanted to check out before committing to a full-size, and I highly recommend you take advantage of the lower prices on those to get to know which of these scents will be your fave!


What are you planning for Valentine’s Day?

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The Best Stocking Stuffers for Travel Lovers Under $100

Holiday shopping for the traveler in your life doesn’t have to be stressful—or expensive. Whether they’re jet-setting weekly or planning their next big adventure, the perfect travel gift is something practical, compact, and full of wanderlust. This curated guide features the best stocking stuffers under $100, including clever gear, beauty essentials, and unique experiences travelers will actually use.

From sugar-free hydration packets to global outlet adapters to adventure-inspiring scratch-off cards, these picks will help you win the holiday gifting game—without blowing your budget.


Why Stocking Stuffers Make the Best Travel Gifts

Travelers value minimalism and multipurpose items. Stocking stuffers check all the boxes:

  • Portable – They take up almost no suitcase space.

  • Useful – Great for flights, road trips, and busy travel days.

  • Affordable – You can gift thoughtful travel essentials without spending a fortune.

  • Fun – They add a little joy to a traveler’s everyday routine.

Let’s dive into the best stocking stuffers your favorite globe-trotter will love unwrapping this year.

Best Stocking Stuffers for Travel Lovers

Under $100

1. Liquid I.V. Hydration Multiplier® Sugar-Free – Holiday Edition

Dry airplane air, winter weather, and long travel days make hydration essential, and Liquid I.V.’s limited edition Hydration Multiplier® Sugar-Free Stocking Stuffer Pack is a must-have. These festive, holiday-inspired packets feature Lemon Lime, Raspberry Melon, and White Peach—all with 0 sugar, 0 artificial sweeteners, and 3x the electrolytes of the leading sports drink. Perfect for post-flight recovery, long hikes, or holiday hangovers. A refreshing stocking stuffer that won't take up much space but will make a huge impact.

2. Patchology On The Fly Travel Facial Kit

Know someone who always wants to look refreshed after a long flight? Enter the On The Fly Travel Facial Kit by Patchology. Packed with depuffing eye gels, hydrating face masks, and smoothing lip treatments, this mini kit brings spa vibes straight to 30,000 feet. It’s TSA-friendly, compact, and perfect for anyone who wants glowing skin on the go.

3. Pinch Provisions Bon Voyage Travel Kit

Stylish, helpful, and under $30—yes, please. If you love a practical gift, this one’s for you. The Bon Voyage Travel Kit is a chic French-inspired pouch stocked with 18 travel essentials, from an eye mask and brush to a stain remover, safety pins, breath drops, lip balm, and a phone stand. Whether your traveler is stuck on a delayed flight or prepping for a long-haul adventure, this kit is guaranteed to come to the rescue.

4. Matador Global Travel Adapter

This compact, worldwide travel adapter works in 170+ countries, making it a perfect stocking stuffer for anyone heading overseas. The Matador Global Travel Adapter powers up laptops, phones, tablets, and more, keeping travelers connected no matter where they roam.

5. HYDAWAY 17oz Collapsible Water Bottle

Hydration meets innovation with the HYDAWAY collapsible water bottle, which folds down to just over an inch thick. Its BPA-free, food-grade silicone design is lightweight, durable, and leakproof—ideal for travelers who want to stay hydrated without giving up precious bag space. Perfect for airport fill-up stations, road trips, or adventure travel.

6. Parallele Vicuna Traveller Charm

This chic mini Traveller Charm from Parallele is an elevated, fashion-forward stocking stuffer.
Designed to hold headphones and lipstick, it clips easily onto a tote, backpack, or carry-on. It’s a stylish little luxury travelers will use daily. Cute, functional, and under $100—basically the perfect gift.

7. Adventure Bucket List Scratch-Off Cards

For the traveler who loves unique experiences, the Adventure Bucket List Scratch-Off Deck is an unforgettable stocking stuffer. Each box includes 50 unique adventure cards and you can choose from just about every state—spanning all seasons. QR codes lead to updated details, making it both interactive and evergreen.

It’s a gift that inspires travelers to explore more—and check off bucket-list moments.

8. Priority Pass (Day Pass or Discounted Membership)

If you've ever sat at an airport gate wishing you were somewhere more comfortable, you know why Priority Pass is a priceless travel perk. While full memberships can be pricey, you can gift:

  • A one-time lounge access pass, or

  • A discounted basic membership (often under $100 on Black Friday)

Perfect for travelers who want to elevate their airport experience with food, drinks, and quiet space.

Why the NOW is the Best Time to Buy Travel Gifts

Between Black Friday, Cyber Monday, and December flash sales, holiday season is when top travel brands drop their best deals.
You’ll often find:

  • Huge markdowns on travel accessories

  • Bundle discounts

  • Limited-edition items (like Liquid I.V.’s holiday flavors!)

  • Free shipping promos

If you're shopping for a travel lover, the holidays are hands-down the best time to stock up on quality gifts.

Tips for Shopping Travel Gifts This Season

Before you check out, keep these key tips in mind:

1. Check Return and Cancellation Policies

Especially for travel-related memberships, digital passes, or items like tech gear.
Look for:

  • Easy returns

  • Free exchanges

  • Extended holiday return windows

2. Read the Fine Print

For subscriptions, tickets, or travel accessories, always read:

  • Country compatibility (adapters)

  • Bottle size limits (TSA 3-1-1 rules)

  • Expiration dates (passes or credits)

3. Buy from Trusted Brands

Travel gear should be durable and reliable. Read reviews and check warranties when possible.

 4. If buying in store - ask for a gift receipt.

Just because you think your gift idea is brilliant, that doesn’t mean your loved one will agree. Spare them the embarrassment of having to ask to exchange your gift, or the annoyance of another thing that just becomes clutter.

You don’t need to spend a fortune to give the traveler in your life something meaningful.
These stocking stuffers under $100 are practical, compact, useful, and guaranteed to be appreciated on their next adventure.

Happy gifting—and happy travels!

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25 Expert Tips to Make This Summer Your Best!

Summer's calling, and whether you're dreaming of exotic escapes or soaking up the sun in your own backyard, preparation is key! This comprehensive guide will walk you through everything you need to purchase to make the most of your summer! From essential travel gear to home decor that screams summer vibes, and lifestyle upgrades for ultimate enjoyment, we've got you covered. Get ready to create your ultimate summer shopping list!

Why You Need a Summer Prep & Shopping List:

Getting ready for any new season is exciting, but can be overwhelming, but summer is one of those times you want to spend as much time as possible outdoors enjoying life, instead of at home stressed out and trying to organize.

I always SWEAR by having a summer prep checklist to:

  • Stress-Free Adventures: Knowing you have everything you need for your travels minimizes pre-trip anxiety and ensures smooth sailing.

  • Efficient Packing & Spending: Planning your purchases in advance helps you buy only what's necessary, saving you time and money.

  • Home Oasis Ready: Equipping your home for summer entertaining and relaxation maximizes your enjoyment of the season.

  • Enhanced Summer Lifestyle: Investing in the right gear for your favorite activities makes them more enjoyable and convenient.

Let's dive into the ultimate summer shopping list!

25 Expert Tips to Make This Summer Your Best:

The Ultimate Summer Prep Checklist!

Part 1: Vacation Prep - Your Ticket to Seamless Travel ✈️🌴

No summer is complete without at least one vacation! I am working on plans for a few, and even though I always prefer to spend more of my money on the trip than on the prep, I do need to refresh a few items before heading out on my next adventure. If it’s been a while since you treated yourself to a vacation, and some new vacation ready outfits and accessories, here is what I recommend you add to cart:

  • Lightweight Dresses: Breathable and stylish, lightweight dresses are perfect for staying cool in warm climates and transitioning effortlessly from day to evening.

  • Classic Linen Separates: This is the fabric of summer and is perfect for running around your city or exploring a new country on vacation. I love having a rotation of linen tops, tanks, pants and dresses to keep me covered for every trip.

  • Swimwear You Feel Good In:  Packing at least two swimsuits ensures you always have a dry one, essential for beach and pool days. And don’t worry about the skimpy cuts or trendy looks, go for what makes you feel good! And don’t forget your sarong or kimono. It can double as a cover up or elevate even a simple sundress or shorts and tank combo. Throw in a travel friendly beach bag that will hold all your essentials, and you are good to go! This one from Simple Modern is perfect for carrying everything you need and is a breeze to clean up.

  • Shoe Wardrobe Refresh:  Comfortable footwear is a must for summer! Think about picking up a pair of versatile sneakers that are perfect for active adventures, travel days, and casual sightseeing. Casual walking sandals are also a must, so invest in some quality walking sandals to be able to explore all day while preventing blisters and foot fatigue.

  • Stylish Sun Protection: Protect your eyes from harmful UV rays while adding a touch of style to your look. You can also opt for a stylish sun hat to provide crucial sun protection for your face and scalp and just look pretty cute in your pics!

  • Compact Travel Tripod: As someone who travels solo often, this is an essential!  You can easily capture stable, high-quality photos and videos, like the ones I shot of myself in this post! I love this one that comes with two ring lights and can extend fully up and down to capture the perfect overhead shots.

  • Durable Packing Cubes: I look like I pack light, but my bag is usually stuffed to the brim! Packing cubes have been a game changer for helping me organize my luggage, compress clothes to save space, and make it easier to find what you need.

 

Part 2: Home Decor & Summer Entertaining - Creating Your Summer Sanctuary ☀️🍹

Entertaining at home in the summer is always a blast! Whether it’s for BBQs, cocktail parties, or movie nights, this is how you can transform your home into a summer haven and host events with a level of chic that will rival even the impeccable Megan Sussex!

New Outdoor Decor: Refresh your outdoor space if you have one – you’ll be using it a lot more this season! Even if it’s a small space, some fresh cushions, outdoor rug and string lights can change the ambiance and create a more inviting and comfortable outdoor living space.

Entertainment essentials: invest in some colorful melamine plates and bowls and shatterproof drinkware. They are durable, lightweight, and perfect for outdoor dining without the risk of breakage. And while you’re at it, add a new pitcher to cart! Its perfect for serving refreshing summer drinks like iced tea, lemonade, or infused water in style. And don’t forget the citronella candles or torches keep pesky insects away, allowing you to enjoy your outdoor space in peace.

Beach and Pool Vibes: is it really even summer without some beach or pool parties planned? Upgrade your towels to some fluffy fresh ones in fun pop color designs and grab a cute inflatable floatie for even more fun!

Part 3: Summer Lifestyle & Activities Shopping List - Embrace the Season! 🚴‍♀️🍉

Whatever your fave summer activities are, it’s time to get ready for all of the fun in the sun!

Essential Fitness Upgrades: It’s time to grab some lightweight workout gear, new hiking boots, and a fresh pair of kicks for all the hot girl walks you’ll be going on! And don’t forget a water bottle to encourage hydration and reduce single-use plastic waste.

Fun Beach Games & Active Entertainment: Enhance your beach or backyard fun with engaging activities that will keep you and your friends active.

A new Journal or Coloring Book: I love the idea of having a dedicated space for capturing your summer memories, thoughts, and inspirations. And coloring is a perfect way to relax and unwind, and definitely beats the nightly doom scroll!

Part 4: Beauty Upgrades for New Season

My skin has gotten weirdly sensitive as I’ve gotten older, so I’m being extra careful about the ingredients and products I introduce into my routine. Summer weather can cause extra irritation, but the increase heat and humidity can also make it impossible to keep your makeup on and looking good.

Gentle Cleansers: Keep this part of your routine simple to ensure you are not overloading on active ingredients. I love Cetaphil cleansers and moisturizer to keep my skin balanced and not compete with other ingredients and stress out my skin.

Sunscreen: Don’t leave home without it! You really should be wearing it all year round, but especially in summer when you are getting a lot more sun exposure.

Longwear Primer & Setting Spray: Humid temps are terrible for keeping your makeup looking fresh! I swear by priming and setting my skin properly to keep my face on all day. And if your skin is extra oily, you can consider adjusting your usual foundation to a powder formula.

Moisturizing Foot Masks: You’ll be showing your feet off a lot more this season, so keep those little piggies soft and moisturized with frequent exfoliation and moisturization.

What are you looking forward to most this summer?

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Spring Clean Your Life: How to Refresh Your Routine and Achieve Your Goals

Spring is more than just a season; it's a feeling. It's the gentle warmth of the sun, the vibrant burst of new blossoms, and the undeniable urge to shake off the winter blues.

This time of year, is a great time to refresh the energy in your home, but also in your life! Because spring cleaning is essential, but not exactly fun! I always try to extend that refreshing energy beyond my home, but to other aspects of my life – my daily routine, mindset, social calendar and health.  Consider this your guide to spring cleaning your life, a holistic approach to resetting, reorganizing, and embracing the joy of the warmer months.

Spring Clean Your Life: How to Refresh Your Routine & Achieve Your Goals

The Mental Refresh: Clearing the Cobwebs of Winter

Winter can be a time of hibernation, both physically and mentally. As the days lengthen, it's crucial to shed those lingering shadows and cultivate a brighter outlook.

  • Digital Detox: Start by decluttering your digital space. Unsubscribe from unnecessary emails, unfollow accounts that don't inspire you, and set time limits for social media. This conscious pruning creates space for more meaningful online interactions and reduces mental clutter.

  • Mindful Movement: Trade in your winter sluggishness for energizing activities. Embrace outdoor walks, yoga in the park, or even a simple stretch in the morning sun. Movement fuels both body and mind, releasing endorphins and boosting your mood.

  • Journaling & Reflection: Take time to reflect on the past few months. What worked? What didn't? What are you grateful for? Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and setting intentions for the future.

  • Cultivate Gratitude: Make a conscious effort to appreciate the small things. Notice the budding flowers, the birdsong, and the longer daylight hours. Gratitude shifts your focus to the positive, creating a sense of contentment.

Reorganizing Your Routine: A Fresh Foundation

A well-organized routine provides structure and frees up mental energy, allowing you to focus on what truly matters.

  • Time Audit: Track how you spend your time for a week. Are there time-wasting habits you can eliminate? Can you delegate tasks or automate processes? Identifying time leaks allows you to reclaim valuable hours.

  • Prioritize & Plan: Define your goals for the spring and summer. Break them down into manageable steps and schedule them into your calendar. This proactive approach prevents overwhelm and ensures you're making progress.

  • Streamline Your Space: Apply the KonMari method to your physical environment. Declutter your closet, organize your workspace, and create a serene sanctuary in your bedroom. A tidy space fosters a calmer mind. Her style may have been a little extreme but modify the principles for what works for you.

  • Make Meal Prep Happen: As the weather warms, embrace lighter, healthier meals. Plan your weekly menu, shop strategically, and prep ingredients in advance. This saves time and ensures you're nourishing your body with fresh, seasonal produce. And if you are working on a fitness journey to shape up for summer, planning meals will help bring you closer to that goal.

Plan Your Summer Adventures

Spring and summer are synonymous with fun and adventure. Plan activities that bring you joy and create lasting memories.

  • Outdoor Escapes: Explore local parks, hiking trails, or beaches. Pack a picnic, rent a kayak, or simply enjoy a leisurely stroll. Immersing yourself in nature is a powerful way to recharge and reconnect with yourself.

  • Community Connection: Attend local festivals, farmers markets, or outdoor concerts. Connect with your community and discover hidden gems in your neighborhood.

  • Creative Pursuits: Try a new hobby, like painting, gardening, or photography. The longer days offer ample opportunity to explore your creative side.

  • Travel Booking: Now is the perfect time to plan a vacation! I just came back from an incredible adventure in Cambodia and am planning a summer trip to Indonesia.  Think about some destinations that have been on your bucket list or plan a smaller mini adventure.  Even if it's a weekend getaway, plan something small and affordable, but unique to look forward to.  

  • Social Gatherings: Host a backyard barbecue, organize a picnic with friends, or plan a sunset hike. Spring and summer are perfect for creating shared experiences and strengthening bonds.

  • Seasonal Eating: Research what local produce is in season and plan meals around it. Farmers markets are a great place to begin.

 Spring cleaning your life is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Embrace the journey, be patient with yourself, and celebrate the small victories along the way. As you shed the layers of winter and embrace the warmth of spring, you'll discover a brighter, more radiant you.

This spring let's not just clean our homes but cultivate a life that reflects the beauty and vitality of the season. Let's bloom brighter, together.

 What are you looking forward to most about Spring?


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5 Things You Need to Know if You Want to Move Abroad!

ts been almost 4 years since I moved out of the US, and I have to say, that life abroad has been an incredible journey. From Beirut to Hong Kong, my years living outside the US have been transformative. Each city has been unique and presented it’s own challenges, but it’s been an incredibly rewarding journey and I have learned and grown so much. 

More and more Americans each year are making the jump move abroad as well, or starting to seriously plan their moves. So if you are in the same boat of starting to think about moving abroad, here are 7 expert tips you need to know. 

5 Things You Need to Know if You Want to Move Abroad! 

Where do I even start when planning a move abroad?

Research, research, research! Begin with a deep dive to narrow down destinations, and learn about what life will be like there. If you’re not even sure which destinations to start thinking about, reflect on your past travels and what you loved or hated about places you’ve visited.   Consider the cost of living, visa requirements, job market, healthcare, culture, and climate. Social media can be an amazing tool to get started, but don't over rely on it.  Be sure to dig into official government websites, local and international news sites,  and expat forums. Create a detailed checklist to keep yourself organized. 

You can also consider booking a personalized move abroad strategy session with me to really kick things off! Click here to get started. 

How much money do I need to save before moving abroad?

This varies greatly depending on your destination and lifestyle. Factor in visa fees, flights, initial accommodation (deposit and rent), living expenses for at least a few months, and an emergency fund. I am pretty risk adverse when it comes to finances, and I always say it's better to overestimate your new cost of living than underestimate. 

There have been countless horror stories of expats and digital nomads that moved abroad with no plan or savings and ended up homeless in a foreign country - do not make their mistakes! Aim for a financial cushion that allows you to settle in comfortably without immediate money worries. I understand that you may really want to move out of the US as soon as possible and the necessary savings may delay your move abroad timeline, but it’s worth it to be careful on this front and take your time to properly plan and save. 

What about taxes? How do I handle expat taxes once I move abroad. 

This is a big one! America is one of few countries in the world that taxes it’s citizens on their worldwide income, so you will need to plan for that. Depending on your income,  you might be eligible for the Foreign Earned Income Exclusion (FEIE), which means that income under a certain threshold is not subject to taxes. The amount 2024 is $126,500 of foreign-earned income and $130,000 for 2025,  but that number does change, so keep up to date with guidelines. And consider using a service like My Expat Taxes to simplify the process.

My Expat Taxes is the best US expat tax software! It offers a user-friendly online platform designed specifically for US expats. You can easily file your taxes, get expert support from experienced professionals, maximize your tax savings by identifying eligible deductions and credits, and ensure you stay compliant with all tax obligations. It simplifies a complex process, allowing you to focus on your new life abroad. 

Check out My Expat Taxes to learn about getting started with the best US expat tax software, so you’ll have a better idea of what to look forward to when you move abroad. 

What should I avoid after I move abroad?  

There are some common mistakes future and potential expats make. Some are in the planning process, like underestimating the cost of living, not researching visa requirements thoroughly, or just entering a country on a tourist visa and overstaying or conducting business, which is usually not allowed.  Another common mistakes is failing to learn the local language. While you don’t always necessarily have to become fluent in the language before you move, it’s always a good practice to learn a few important words and phrases to show respect to the locals. 

And be sure you understand and adhere to local laws, especially ones that may be very unique to your destination. 

I’m afraid to leave my friends and family, and I don’t know how I will I make friends as an adult

This was one of my biggest fears the first time I moved abroad, and it was intimidating every time I changed countries! But I can tell you from experience, you will be fine. The beautiful thing about being an expat, especially an American abroad, is that gives you instant common ground and an opportunity for connection with thousands of people just like you. I have made so many friends just in casual interactions, like them recognizing my accent in line at the grocery store. 

However it is important for you to be intentional about putting yourself out there and making friends. This can be hard, especially for introverted personalities, but you will have to see that as an opportunity for personal development. Stay proactive and engaged in your new life and it will all work out. 

Moving abroad is a significant decision, but with the right preparation and mindset, it can be an incredibly rewarding adventure. Don't let the unknowns hold you back. Start planning today, and let me know any questions in the comments here or on Instagram or TikTok!

And be sure to check out My Expat Taxes, the best US expat tax software, to learn more about what you’ll have to look forward to when you move abroad and start filing your taxes. 

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Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for the Jetsetter in Your Life!

Well, January has been a wild one. I can barely believe all of the things happening in the world all at once, and I’m honestly starting to slow down the pace at which I try to keep up. Myself, and a lot of women like me are focusing on self-care, peace of mind, and quality time with the people I love. And since Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and its the perfect opportunity to show some love to the friends and family in your life.

Since my husband and I travel together so frequently, either on couples trips or just with friends of ours, I decided to focus this Valentine’s Gift Guide on things the frequent traveler will love! If your BFF or SO is a frequent traveler, it can be tough to find the perfect gift that they'll actually use and appreciate, but don’t worry - this list is bound to have something they would love!

Here is my roundup of Valentine's Day gift ideas that are perfect for frequent travelers. These gifts are both practical and thoughtful, and they're sure to make your loved one feel special and keep their wanderlust sparked.

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for the Jetsetter in Your Life!



Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Travel Accessories

Travel accessories are always a great gift for frequent travelers! Here are a few ideas for things that will keep them comfortable, organized, and ready for any plane, train or automobile!

  • Portable charger: This is a must-have for any traveler. It will keep your loved one's phone and other devices charged on the go.

  • Travel pillow: This will help your loved one get a good night's sleep on the plane or train.

  • Travel backpack: This is a great way to keep your loved one's belongings organized and secure while traveling.

  • Air tags: These will help your loved one keep track of their luggage when they have to check it to be sure it doesn’t end up lost or stolen

  • Travel journal: This is a great way for your loved one to document their travels and have something physical to flip through and relive memories

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Experiences

Experiences are often more meaningful than material gifts. Here are a few ideas they can use on one of their many adventures, or just to recreate vacation vibes at home.

  • Gift certificate for a spa treatment: Relax and de-stress after a long trip, or use it to get ready for a beach vacation

  • Tickets to a concert or show: This is a great way to spend a romantic evening together, or give them something exciting to look forward to on their next trip. I was SUPPOSED to get to see Cinderella at the Sydney Opera House, but unfortunately it didn’t work out.

  • Cooking class: This is a fun and unique way to learn about new cultures and cuisines. I’ve taken a few in Hong Kong and am planning one on my next trip!

  • Wine tasting: This is a great way to sample different wines and learn about the winemaking process. I just did a full day tour from Sydney with Get Your Guide and it was an experience I’ll never forget. Even if they don’t plan one while traveling, it’s a great way to spend a date night out in your home city.

  • Travel gift cards: This is a great way to give your loved one the gift of a dream vacation! Airbnb, hotel or airline gift cards will go a long way towards helping your loved one book the trip of your dreams.

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Subscription Boxes

Subscription boxes are a great way to give your loved one a gift that keeps on giving. Here are a few ideas:

  • TokyoTreat: If you’ve ever been to Japan you probably feel in love with it! And this subscription box will take you back to your dream trip every month. delivers Japanese snacks and treats to your loved one's door every month. It's a great way for them to experience the flavors of Japan without having to travel there. The TokyoTreat team sent me their Valentine’s Box for review and I am hooked! I loved the assortment of Japanese snacks in the most adorable packaging, plus they ship worldwide!

  • BarkBox: This subscription box is a fave among pet owners! It delivers dog toys and treats to your loved one's dog every month and is a great way to show your love for both your loved one and their furry friend.

  • Mantry: This subscription box delivers a variety of gourmet food products to your loved one's door every month. It's a great way to help them discover new and interesting flavors

  • Birchbox: the Birchbox subscription box delivers a variety of beauty and grooming products to your loved one's door every month. It's a great way to help them look and feel their best.

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Destination Inspired Gifts

Help them relive some of their favorite trips with personalized gifts that will help them keep the memories fresh!

  • Custom Photobook: This is a great way to create a one-of-a-kind gift that your loved one will cherish forever. You can grab pictures from their Instagram to surprise them, or give them a gift card so they can design one themselves. Mixbook and Parabo Press have some great options, an easy to use interface, and fast shipping.

  • Retro Travel Posters: I collected a few of these from Beirut, and plan to before I move out of Hong Kong! They look so chic in our living room decor, and every time I look at them it takes me back to my fondest memories of life there. You can find a lot of different styles and destinations on Etsy at great prices. Elevate the gift by throwing in a gift card to a local frame shop.

Valentine’s Day Gift Guide: Beauty Gifts

Travel beauty products always come in handy! Here are a few gift sets I recommend adding to cart that will come in handy for their next trip!

  • Vacation Inc Sunscreen Set: I grabbed this in a Revolve beauty sale and it came in so handy on my trip to Australia. It smells amazing, and has everything a beach babe would need to glow up while protecting her skin.

  • Pattern Beauty Curl Cocktail Hair Care Set: It’s hard to take care of your hair on the go, but travel shouldn’t mean using whatever you can get your hands on, and letting your hair/skin suffer in the process! Pattern Beauty has lots of mini hair care travel sets that will keep them looking glam on the go.

  • Hermes Mini Fragrance Discovery Set: Anyone is gonna get excited when they see that orange box! Instead of attempting the incredibly expensive and basically impossible task of getting them a bag, this mini fragrance set is a stylish and relatively affordable luxury gift. Plus traveling with full-size perfume is hard since the bottles are fragile and too bulky for a carry-on, so this solves that problem!

  • e.l.f Cosmetics Travel Makeup Brush Set & Roll: I made the decision to invest in a second set of quality travel makeup brushes to save time on packing and unpacking, and I highly recommend any frequent traveler do the same! This set from e.l.f. includes a variety of pro quality brushes and a convenient roll for storage and packing.

Let me know which of these you’ll be buying to give to your loved ones this Valentine’s Day (or just keep for yourself)!.

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Last-minute Holiday Gifts for the Travel Lover on Your List!

Christmas is just days away, so tis the season for the last minute annual scramble for the perfect gifts. Yes, you’ve had plenty of time to do it, but life happens and things get pushed to the last minute, but these are the days to lock in on holiday shopping!

This last minute holiday gift guide for the travel lover on your list is here to save Christmas! Whether you're shopping for the jet-setter, business traveler, or backpacker in your life, these last-minute travel gifts are sure to spark wanderlust and delight wanderers of all stripes.

The best part - everything on this list is budget friendly, with some things starting at just $10!

Last-minute Holiday Gifts for the Travel Lover on Your List!

Holiday Gifts For the Tech-Savvy Traveler:

  • Global E-Sim Plan: Forget scrambling for local SIM cards or racking up roaming charges. A global eSIM plan like those offered by Jetpac, Airalo or Nomad gives them seamless connectivity in over 100 countries. They can activate the plan instantly on their phone and stay connected for calls, texts, and data.

  • Portable Wi-Fi Hotspot: For groups traveling together or those who need a reliable connection for work on the go, a portable Wi-Fi hotspot like the Solis Lite can be a lifesaver. It creates a personal Wi-Fi network that can connect multiple devices, ensuring everyone stays connected and entertained during long journeys or downtime. This is the perfect gift for the digital nomad in your life, so help them stay connected without having to navigate unreliable Wi-Fi networks.

  • Tech Organizer: Help them keep their tech essentials tidy and protected with a stylish tech kit from Bellroy. These sleek organizers have compartments for everything from chargers and headphones to cables and memory cards, making it a breeze to stay organized on the go.

  • Air Tags: These are essential for frequent travelers, especially those that tend to travel heavy with multiple checked bags, or anyone moving abroad in 2025!

Holiday Gifts for the Organized Adventurer:

  • Packing Cubes: Packing cubes are the ultimate organizational tool for any traveler. Bag-All offer various sizes and configurations, allowing them to maximize their suitcase space and compartmentalize their belongings for easy access.

  • Compression Packing Bags: For travelers who love squeezing the most out of their luggage, compression packing bags are a game-changer. These bags use vacuum suction or rolling techniques to compress clothing and other soft goods, freeing up valuable suitcase space for souvenirs or extra outfits. These are ideal for long-trips or international moves when you really need to overstuff those bags!

  • Leak-Proof Toiletry Kit: No one wants a toiletries explosion in their luggage. Leak-proof toiletry kits with refillable bottles like those from Cadence Capsules keep spills contained and ensure your belongings stay safe and organized throughout your trip. Plus they are irresistibly chic!

Holiday Gifts For the Safety-Conscious Traveler:

  • Personal Safety Device: Give them peace of mind with a personal safety device like She's Birdie. These discreet devices connect to apps on their phone, allowing them to send alerts to designated contacts or emergency services in case of trouble.

  • Money Belt or RFID Blocking Wallet: Travel scams and pickpocketing are unfortunately a reality. Equipping them with a money belt from Pacsafe or an RFID-blocking wallet like Ekster can help protect their cash, credit cards, and passports from theft.

Holiday Gifts For the Comfort Seeker:

  • Travel Pillow: Traveling often means sacrificing neck and back support. A good travel pillow like the Trtl Pillow or the Cloud Nest can make all the difference for long flights or uncomfortable bus rides. Look for pillows with ergonomic designs and memory foam for maximum comfort.

  • Luxe in Flight Set: Airplane blankets leave MUCH to be desired. Grab a stylish and convenient travel set that will elevate their flight experience to first-class levels, even if they are flying economy.

Holiday Gifts For the Foodie on the Go:

  • Collapsible Water Bottle with Filter: Stay hydrated and environmentally conscious with a collapsible water bottle with a built-in filter like the LifeStraw Go. This convenient bottle allows them to filter water on the go, saving money on bottled water and reducing plastic waste.

  • An in-flight snack box: Airplane food is hit or miss, if it’s even served! Give the gift of a stylish carry-on friendly snack box so your traveling foodie can enjoy their own healthy snacks for the flight.

Holiday Gifts for When You Just Run Out of Ideas:

  • Travel Gift Card: Stuck on what to get the person who has everything? Sometimes, the best gift is the gift of opportunity. A travel gift card to a platform like Airbnb allows them to choose their next adventure, be it a cozy staycation, a weekend getaway, or an epic global exploration.

  • Gift Certificate for an Experience: Experiences are often more cherished than material possessions. Consider gifting them a certificate for a local experience like a cooking class, a hot air balloon ride, or a guided tour in a city they've always wanted to visit. Get Your Guide is an amazing resource for booking adventures all over the world.

And don't forget the power of a handwritten note, special card or gift wrap. A personal touch can make even the most practical gift extra meaningful. I love the prints from Black Paper Party, they are the perfect way to add extra excitement for the Black female traveler on your list.

With these last-minute travel gift ideas, you're sure to find the perfect present for the globe-trotting enthusiast in your life. Now, go forth and spread holiday cheer (and wanderlust)!

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It's Election Time! What American Expats Need to Know to Vote From Abroad!

Well in case you’ve been living under a rock, this year is a major one for Americans - election time! The 2024 presidential election campaigning has been going on for what already seems like years, but things really came to a head with this week’s first presidential debate. No matter how you feel about the current candidates or election process, voting is an important right and its crucial that we exercise it, especially at a time when so much is at stake.

If you are an American living abroad, you can still vote in the upcoming election with just a little bit of planning. In this post I’ll give you a quick overview of what you need to know to vote as an American living abroad, whether as an expat or digital nomad.

Did you know that millions of Americans living abroad don’t vote - even though they are still eligible? There are almost 3 million people living abroad who are eligible voters and their right to vote is protected by the Uniformed and Overseas Citizens Absentee Voting Act of 1986,. This law requires that states allow military service members, their eligible family, and other overseas Americans to vote absentee in federal elections. Yes, even ordinary Americans living abroad, not just military service members or diplomats.

Whichever candidate you may be leaning towards, its important to make your voice heard and remember that you can still have an impact. Even if you have moved abroad and don’t plan on returning to the U.S., foreign policy is interchangeable and its effects can be sweeping.

So here is everything you need to know to vote in U.S. elections as an American living abroad!

It's Election Time! What American Expats Need to Know to Vote From Abroad!





Why Should American Expats Living Abroad Vote

As I always say - just because you left the country doesn’t mean you’re out of the game! Foreign policy is interconnected and your life abroad can very much still be impacted by U.S political decisions. And even if you never plan on moving back and are ready to renounce your citizenship (which I don’t believe you should do), you likely still have friends, family and loved ones at home who will very much be impacted. Use your voice in the best way you can to protect their best interests.

Will My Vote Be Counted as an American Living Abroad

It might seem like it won’t make a difference, but your voice matters and your overseas ballot will 100% be counted! Even if you see a race “called” for a certain candidate once the polls close, the state is still required to count every valid ballot received before the election results may be certified. Pay attention to the deadlines for requesting and returning your ballot to make sure it is on time!

How to Vote as An American Expat Living Abroad

There are a few steps to follow, but trust me - they are super simple. Start by going to Vote From Abroad and selecting your state of residence. This will be the last place you lived in the U.S. They will confirm some basic info needed for you to submit the Federal Post Card Application (FPCA) form to your Local Election Official in the US. This will register you to vote and request a ballot for that year. Even if you are already registered to vote, you still need to do this step every year to get your absentee ballot.

Then you will wait to receive your absentee ballot by email or regular mail, fill it out and send it back. Some states allow you to email or fax it back, but some will require you to mail it, so pay attention to your state’s regulations and deadlines.

Pretty simple right?

So if you’re an American expat living abroad, get started ASAP and note any important deadlines your state may have. Let me know in the comments if you have voted from abroad in past


It's Election Time! What American Expats Need to Know to Vote From Abroad!

1. Why Should American Expats Living Abroad Vote

2. Will My Vote Be Counted as an American Living Abroad

3. How to Vote as An American Expat Living Abroad

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Slay All Summer! Must-Have Products for the Ultimate It Girl Traveler

As the temperature rises and wanderlust sets in, it's time to prepare for your summer adventures in style. Whether you're jet-setting to exotic locales or exploring hidden gems closer to home, being an It Girl traveler means packing the perfect combination of fashion, beauty, books, and travel accessories. In this guide, I'll share my top picks for essential products to elevate your summer travels and ensure you're always ready for that Instagram-worthy moment.

Fashion Essentials:

  1. Versatile Sun Hat: Shield yourself from the sun in style with a chic wide-brimmed sun hat. Opt for a neutral shade like beige or black to effortlessly complement any outfit, whether you're lounging by the pool or exploring a bustling city.

  2. Flowy Maxi Dress: Embrace effortless elegance with a flowy maxi dress that's as comfortable as it is fashionable. Choose lightweight fabrics and vibrant prints to capture the essence of summer while staying cool and comfortable all day long.

  3. Statement Sunglasses: Make a statement with a pair of oversized sunglasses that exude glamour and sophistication. Look for on-trend frames like cat-eye or aviator styles to add a touch of personality to your summer ensemble.

  4. Stylish Swimwear: Elevate your poolside look with a swimsuit that combines fashion and function. Whether you prefer a classic one-piece or a trendy bikini, opt for flattering silhouettes and vibrant colors to turn heads wherever you go.

Beauty Essentials:

  1. Sunscreen: Protect your skin from harmful UV rays with a high-quality sunscreen that offers broad-spectrum protection. Look for lightweight formulas that won't feel greasy or heavy on your skin, and don't forget to reapply regularly, especially after swimming or sweating. Opt for a reef-safe formula if you're headed to a beach destination.

  2. Hydrating Facial Mist: Stay refreshed and rejuvenated on the go with a hydrating facial mist that provides an instant burst of moisture. Choose a formula infused with nourishing ingredients like hyaluronic acid or rose water to keep your skin glowing all summer long.

  3. Makeup Multitaskers: Look for products that do double duty. A tinted moisturizer provides light coverage and hydration, while a cream blush can also be used on your lips for a dewy flush.

Books & Technology

  1. Journal: Capture your travel memories and reflections in a stylish journal that reflects your personal style. Use it to jot down your favorite moments, document new experiences, and express your thoughts and emotions as you embark on your summer adventures.

  2. Language Phrasebook: Immerse yourself in the local culture and connect with the people you meet by learning key phrases and expressions in the local language. A compact language phrasebook is an essential tool for navigating unfamiliar territory and making meaningful connections with locals.

  3. Portable Charger: Keep your devices powered up and ready for action with a portable charger that's compact and lightweight enough to carry with you everywhere. Whether you're snapping photos, navigating with GPS, or staying connected with loved ones, a reliable portable charger is a travel essential you won't want to be without.

  4. Noise Cancelling Headphones: these are an essential for getting through a long flight or train ride!

Don’t Forget - Safety First! Other Travel Accessories:

  1. Carbon Monoxide Detector: Unfortunately not every hotel or AirBnB has these, and the results can be tragic. There have been several cases of tourists dying from carbon monoxide poisoning, even at high end resorts. Grab an affordable travel friendly option to keep your safety in your own hands!

  2. Personal Safety Alarm: Stay prepared for any situation with a personal safety alarm that emits a loud, attention-grabbing sound to deter potential threats and attract help in emergencies. Compact and easy to carry, a safety alarm provides added peace of mind for solo female travelers exploring unfamiliar destinations.

  3. Self-Defense Keychain: Equip yourself with a self-defense keychain that doubles as a discreet weapon to protect yourself in threatening situations. Choose a compact and lightweight design that fits comfortably in your hand and can be easily deployed if needed.

  4. RFID Blocking Wallet: Protect your sensitive information and prevent identity theft with an RFID blocking wallet that shields your credit cards, passports, and other electronic devices from unauthorized scanning. Stylish and functional, an RFID blocking wallet is an essential accessory for safeguarding your personal data while traveling solo.

  5. Portable Door Lock: Enhance your safety and security in accommodations with a portable door lock that provides an additional layer of protection against intruders. Easy to install and remove, a portable door lock offers peace of mind and reassurance for solo female travelers staying in hotels, hostels, or vacation rentals.

With these essential products in your arsenal, you'll be well-equipped to embark on the ultimate It Girl travel experience this summer. From chic fashion pieces and beauty essentials to captivating books and practical travel accessories, these must-have items will ensure you're always ready for whatever adventures come your way. So pack your bags, embrace the spirit of wanderlust, and get ready to make unforgettable memories that will last a lifetime. Safe travels!






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Make the Most of Your Year: 10 Things to Do Before the End of 2023!

And another year has basically flown by! I still remember ringing in the start of 2023, and in what feels like the blink of an eye, I am prepping for Thanksgiving and getting ready to dust off my holiday decoratins!

As we approach the end of another year, it's the perfect time to reflect on the goals we set and the experiences we've had. The end of the year often brings a sense of closure and a fresh start, and there are plenty of things you can do to make the most of the time left in 2023. While my personal productivity has fluctuated A LOT this year due to plenty of emotional and life ups and downs, I’m ending the year on a positive note, focusing more on self-care and less on feelings of accomplishment.

Keep reading for 10 things to do before the end of the year, so you can finish the year on a high note, no matter how you are feeling right now!

10 Things to Do Before the End of 2023!

Reflect and Set New Goals

Before jumping into new adventures, take some time to reflect on your accomplishments and experiences throughout the year. What were your goals at the beginning of 2023, and how far have you come in achieving them? Celebrate your successes and learn from your challenges. Then, set new goals for the coming year. Whether they are personal, professional, or a combination of both, having clear objectives can help you stay motivated and focused.

Explore a New Hobby

The end of the year is an excellent time to try something new. Explore a hobby that you've always been curious about. It could be painting, gardening, dancing, cooking, or any other activity that piques your interest. Learning a new hobby can be a fun and enriching experience, and it's a great way to broaden your horizons.

Volunteer and Give Back

The holiday season is a time for giving, and there are numerous opportunities to volunteer and give back to your community. Whether you choose to volunteer at a local food bank, participate in a charity run, or help organize a toy drive, contributing to a good cause can be a heartwarming and fulfilling experience. Make a difference in someone's life and spread kindness this year.

Reconnect with Loved Ones

Life can get busy, and it's easy to lose touch with friends and family. Before the year ends, make an effort to reconnect with loved ones. Call or meet up with old friends, arrange a family gathering, or simply send a heartfelt message to someone you care about. These connections are invaluable and can bring a lot of joy to your life. Since I’ve traveled and moved around so much, I’m working on scheduling touch bases with my friends and family to make sure I stay connected. With everyone being so busy these days, you have to be proactive about managing relationships with loved ones.

Declutter and Organize

A tidy space can lead to a clearer mind. Take the time to declutter and organize your home before the year's end. Donate items you no longer need, reorganize your closets, and create a serene and clutter-free environment. It's amazing how a clean and organized living space can positively impact your overall well-being. Some people prefer Spring cleaning, but I prefer to do a deep clean and purge this time of year, so I start the new year with fresh, clean energy.

Travel Somewhere New

Traveling can be a source of inspiration and personal growth. Plan a trip to a destination you've never been before, whether it's a nearby town or a far-off country. Exploring new places can provide you with unique experiences, broaden your horizons, and create cherished memories. Even if you don’t take the trip now, take advantage of Black Friday travel deals to plan a dream trip for later!

Learn Something New

The pursuit of knowledge is a lifelong journey. Before the year is over, consider learning something new. It could be a new language, an online course, or even picking up a new skill, like playing a musical instrument. Expanding your knowledge and skill set not only enhances your personal growth but also offers new opportunities and challenges.

Prioritize Self-Care

Taking care of yourself is crucial for your overall well-being. Make self-care a priority before the year ends. This can include practices like meditation, regular exercise, maintaining a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and pampering yourself with a spa day or a weekend getaway. Ensuring that you are physically and mentally well will enable you to tackle the challenges of the coming year with resilience and positivity.

Plan for the Future

Set yourself up for success in the new year by planning for your future. Whether it's creating a budget, making investments, or setting up a retirement account, taking steps to secure your financial future is essential. Additionally, consider updating your will or estate plan to ensure your loved ones are protected. Planning for the future can provide peace of mind and a sense of security.

Create a Year-End Tradition

To make the most of the year-end, consider creating a tradition that you can look forward to each year. This could be a special New Year's Eve celebration, a gratitude journal, or even a symbolic ritual that marks the end of the year and the beginning of a fresh start. Traditions can bring a sense of continuity and anticipation to your life.

As we approach the end of 2023, it's the perfect time to reflect on the year that's passed and prepare for the year ahead. These 10 things to do before the end of the year can help you make the most of your time, create memorable experiences, and set the stage for a fulfilling future. So, seize the remaining days of the year and make them count. Whether it's personal growth, giving back, or simply cherishing the moments with loved ones, make the most of your time before we ring in the new year!

What are you looking forward to most for 2024?


10 Things to Do Before the End of 2023!

  1. Reflect and Set New Goals

  2. Explore a New Hobby

  3. Volunteer and Give Back

  4. Reconnect with Loved Ones

  5. Declutter and Organize

  6. Travel Somewhere New

  7. Learn Something New

  8. Prioritize Self-Care

  9. Plan for the Future

  10. Create a Year-End Tradition

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Summer Ready! 10 Tips You Need to Look and Feel Your Best This Season

Summer is just around the corner, and it's time to get ready for the season of sunshine, warm weather, and outdoor fun! Whether you're planning a beach vacation, a pool party, or just looking forward to enjoying the sunny days at home, here are some lifestyle tips to help you make the most out of your summer and get ready for the upcoming season.

Summer Ready! 10 Tips You Need to Look and Feel Your Best This Season

Stay Hydrated

As the temperature rises, it's crucial to stay hydrated to keep your body functioning optimally. Make sure to drink plenty of water throughout the day, especially during outdoor activities. You can also include hydrating foods in your diet, such as watermelon, cucumbers, and oranges, which are high in water content and can help keep you hydrated.

Protect Your Skin

Sunscreen should be a non-negotiable part of your summer routine. Exposure to harmful UV rays can damage your skin and increase the risk of sunburn, premature aging, and even skin cancer. Choose a broad-spectrum sunscreen with at least SPF 30 and apply it generously to all exposed skin, including your face, neck, arms, and legs.

Don't forget to reapply every two hours, or immediately after swimming or sweating. And don’t forget your eyes! They need protection from the sun as well. The strong UV rays during the summer can harm your eyes and increase the risk of eye conditions like cataracts and macular degeneration. Make sure to wear sunglasses with UV protection that block out 100% of UVA and UVB rays. Look for sunglasses that wrap around your eyes for maximum coverage and choose ones with polarized lenses to reduce glare, especially when you're around water. Don't forget to also wear a wide-brimmed hat for extra protection.

Get Your Summer Wardrobe Ready

It's time to put away your winter clothes and update your wardrobe for summer. Invest in lightweight and breathable fabrics like cotton and linen that are perfect for hot weather. Opt for light-colored clothing, as they reflect heat and keep you cooler. Don't forget to add some stylish sunglasses, wide-brimmed hats, and comfortable sandals to complete your summer look.

Stay Active Outdoors

Summer is the perfect time to enjoy outdoor activities and get moving. From swimming and hiking to biking and beach volleyball, there are plenty of fun ways to stay active during the sunny season. Regular physical activity not only helps you stay fit and healthy but also boosts your mood and energy levels. So, make the most of the longer days and warmer weather by incorporating outdoor activities into your routine.

Plan Your Summer Vacation

If you're planning a summer getaway, now is the time to start planning and booking your travel arrangements. Whether it's a beach vacation, a camping trip, or a city break, plan ahead to get the best deals on flights, accommodations, and activities. Research your destination and make a packing list to ensure you have everything you need for a stress-free and enjoyable trip.

Stay Cool and Comfortable

As the mercury rises, it's important to stay cool and comfortable in the summer heat. Dress in loose, light-colored clothing that allows air to circulate and keeps you cool. Use fans or air conditioning to maintain a comfortable indoor temperature, and take cool showers or use a damp towel on your neck and wrists to lower your body temperature.

Eat Fresh and Healthy

Summer is the perfect time to enjoy a variety of fresh fruits and vegetables that are abundant during the season. Incorporate plenty of salads, smoothies, and grilled vegetables into your diet for a nutritious and refreshing summer meal. Opt for lighter and cooler foods, such as yogurt, salads, and chilled soups, to help you stay refreshed and hydrated.

Take Care of Your Hair

Summer can be harsh on your hair, with exposure to sun, saltwater, and chlorine from swimming. Take care of your locks by using a hair sunscreen spray to protect your hair from UV rays, and rinse your hair with clean water after swimming to remove saltwater or chlorine residue. Deep condition your hair regularly to replenish moisture, and consider using a wide-brimmed hat or a stylish scarf to protect your hair from direct sunlight.

Plan Outdoor Social Activities

Summer is the perfect time to connect with friends and family and plan outdoor social activities. From BBQs and picnics to outdoor movie nights and beach bonfires, there are endless opportunities for fun and memorable gatherings. Plan ahead and make a list of outdoor activities you want to do with your loved ones, and create lasting memories while enjoying the warm weather.

Practice Relaxation Techniques

Summer can be a busy season with lots of activities and events, but it's important to also prioritize self-care and relaxation. Take time to practice relaxation techniques like meditation, yoga, or deep breathing to reduce stress and stay balanced. You can also create a calming outdoor space in your backyard or balcony with some comfy seating, soft lighting, and relaxing music to unwind and enjoy the summer evenings.

Getting ready for summer involves more than just packing your bags for a vacation or buying a new swimsuit. It's about taking care of your health, staying safe in the sun and water, staying active, and enjoying quality time with loved ones. By following these lifestyle tips, you can make the most out of the summer season and create unforgettable memories that will last a lifetime. So, put on your sunscreen, grab your sunglasses, and get ready to embrace the warmth and joy of summer! Happy summer preparations!

Summer Ready! 10 Tips You Need to Look and Feel Your Best This Season

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  2. Protect Your Skin

  3. Get Your Summer Wardrobe Ready

  4. Stay Active Outdoors

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  6. Stay Cool and Comfortable

  7. Eat Fresh and Healthy

  8. Take Care of Your Hair

  9. Plan Outdoor Social Activities

  10. Practice Relaxation Techniques

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24 Unique Christmas Gifts Everyone on Your List Will Love!

Are you guys ready for Christmas!

I can’t believe Christmas is just a few weeks away, and the end of 2022 will be coming just behind it. Since I’ve spent so much time traveling this year, I am really looking forward to a lazy, cozy holiday season at home with my friends and family.

This year has been a challenging one for a lot of reasons, and we are all feeling the pinch am I right? Inflation is at an all time high, supply chain issues are impacting availability of goods, and interest rates have sky rocketed, meaning you really should be avoiding credit card debt now more than ever. The holiday season can often be stressful in a lot of ways, and this massive pile-up of social issues is only adding fuel to the fire.

I am definitely keeping my gift giving list tight this year, so I have spent a lot of time scouring the internet for affordable but eye catching items for everyone on my list. I decided to share a few of my favorite finds with you, hopefully to ease the pain of all that browsing! So here are over 20 holiday gift ideas for everyone on your list, at a wide range of price points! Keep reading for my 2022 Holiday Gift Guide.

2022 Holiday Gift Guide

affordable holiday gift ideas for everyone on your list


Gifts for the Frequent Traveler

I have been to over 10 countries this year, and all that time on a plane, I have had plenty of time to think of goods and gadgets that would make frequent travel all the more easy. I love this Work from Anywhere kit, which is perfect for anyone who still needs to be productive while traveling. And these black toiletry pouches can be filled up to the brim but still save so much more space than bottles.

If you have someone on the list that actually moved abroad or spends most of their time away, Homesick Candles have a scent for every city and can make even the most boring hotel room feel a bit more like home. Or if you are short ideas or missed the window for shipping in time for Christmas, just give the gift that keeps on giving - a Priority Pass membership!

Gifts for the Homebody

Help your friends and family create a cozier vibe at home with some stylish, chic, but functional home goods. Fluffy towels, a cooling pillow, or a cozy blanket can be perfect. I also have my eye on this surprisingly affordable baking set from Le Cruset, and you can’t go wrong with these Oofos Recovery Slippers that are the perfect thing to slip your feet into after a long day running around.

Gifts for the Fashionista

It is always a challenge picking out gifts for a fashion lover, but here are a few simple and elegant ideas. The viral slip dress from Skims will be a standout, as will this cozy longline cardigan that elevates even the most simple outfit.

If you haven’t heard of Brandon Blackwood, you need to familiarize yourself asap! The Black owned designer has become an it girl essential, and the bags still have some decent opening price points. And if you have run out of time or ideas or simply don’t have the desire to browse a few hundred web pages at various retailers, a Shein gift card will do the trick! Their assortment is enormous and prices rock bottom cheap, so anyone can find something they will love on that site!

Gifts for Him

Last but not least, don’t forget the guys on your list! Cufflinks are always a classic, and this cord organizer is an elegant solution for keeping your tech organized while traveling.

If he is a whisky lover, check out Man Crates for a selection of various types of gift boxes. Or help him step up his beauty game with some classic skin care or a high tech razor.

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Best December Ever! 8 Savvy Tips You Need Before the End of the Year

How is it already December! I have been lucky enough to spend several chunks of time jetting around Europe and the Middle East, and I guess that’s how time flew so fast. One of the best things about expat life is the ease and freedom of travel, but one of the worst is the time away from home this time of year.

The holiday season here is still jam-packed, but it’s just not quite the same as spending Christmas and Thanksgiving at home. However, since I’ve been away from the intensity of life in New York and the expectations and obligations of family, I have actually had time to really reflect on what I love and hate about this time of year, and what I want to get out of the new year on the horizon. Here are 8 things to do in December to stay centered, enjoy the holiday season, and get ready for the end of the year!

Best December Ever!

8 Savvy Tips You Need Before the End of the Year

  1. Practice setting boundaries

This time of year, you can find yourself pulled in a hundred different directions, but put your foot down! Don’t want to host this year – just say no! Not in the mood for elaborate holiday decorating. Pass! Don’t have the budget to buy gifts for every friend, cousin, niece, nephew, and coworker? Too bad for them!

Decide what is most important to you this month and focus on that. It could be more time spent relaxing with family and friends, or just ensuring you have adequate time for solo self-care. You are the boss, and you can decide how you want your holiday season to look, instead of once again being dragged along by other people's expectations of you and decisions being made about what you should do.

2. Keep your portions in check

I personally will not be over-indulging this holiday season since I’ve got a big beach trip coming in January. However, you can still find a balance in between watching your weight and still enjoying your favorite holiday foods.

Want to know the easiest strategy for watching your calories this season? Just literally use your hands!  Keep protein to the size of your palm or bigger if you are focused on adding muscle, carbs the size of your fist, and vegetables to around 2 fistfuls – preferably of raw, leafy greens. And if you want to go a little harder or are actively trying to lose weight, just double down on the protein and skip the carbs and starchy foods. Feel free to give yourself a break on Thanksgiving and Christmas of course, just try to eat mindfully the rest of the season.

3. Be a morning person

It feels nearly impossible to get anything done after work these days, largely because it’s pitch black by around 4pm every day! Try to push yourself to get up earlier and start knocking things your to do list. I have taken to getting up 30-45 minutes earlier to give myself time for miscellaneous things like tidying up, paying bills, business work and online holiday shopping. And since I am someone who works out 5 times a week, twice a week I get up even earlier to get some of those workouts out of the way. Keeping a productive morning schedule ensures I get certain things done before anything else can distract me, and leaves me feeling inspired to maintain a certain level of productivity throughout the day.

 4. Treat yourself.

If you think I’m only buying Christmas presents for others – think again! I have been bookmarking thing I want for months, just counting down the days for those Black Friday sales. Save some room in your budget to treat yourself – you 100% deserve it!

5. Pick some habits – one to choose, one to lose!

I haven’t set New Year’s Resolutions in ages. What I do instead is consider the things I do (and don't do) most days. Then I pick one habit I want to really focus on making consistent, and one that I really need to stop doing. Then I put them into mindful practice and see what happens! In 2021 that habit was a daily core conditioning workout for at least 5 minutes. I kept up with that, but didn’t set one for 2022, so it’s time to play catch up.

6. Make a budget/tax prep

This is a chore but trust me you will thank me later! If you have anticipate having a particularly complicated return, check in with your tax professional before December 31st! Go over your tax situation and anything you may need to do before year’s end to lessen your burden. Depending on your situation you may or may not be able to do anything, but it’s worth at least being informed and having all your documents in order.

Granted, this may not be anyone’s picture of holiday fun, but you’ll be happy to have this part out of the way!

 7. Plan a Vacation

You guys know I don’t need any reason to start booking flights! But lately I have taken to adding vacation deals to cart around Black Friday! Yes, airlines, hotels and travel booking platforms all offer a host of deals and steals around Black Friday and Christmas, so take advantage of those discounts. A lot of platforms also offer flexible cancellation policies and no pre-payment so you can plan a dream trip without being on the hook to pay for weeks.

Plus booking early helps you save a lot and have your pick of the best places to stay, so do some early planning for your summer 2023 trips!  

 8. Reflect on last year's resolutions

If you are someone that makes resolutions, take some time to reflect on how you did with your goals for 2022. It’s hard to accurately weigh your progress considering all the external factors that may have thrown you off, but give it some thought and see where you could have improved. While not everything is in your control, some stuff actually is! Take charge of what you can control, improve and learn from.

If you fell short of your goals, don’t worry – you still have time to take some baby steps toward improvement. And if you aced every goal you set out to accomplish, go ahead and give yourself a pat on the back!

How are you feeling about the last few weeks of 2022? What are you looking forward to most this holiday season?

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8 Savvy Tips You Need Now to Be Perfectly Prepared for Fall

Well, it’s officially Fall!

I feel like summer flew by in the blink of an eye, and before we know it, we will be cozying up in cashmere, making hot cocoa, and having holiday movie marathon. If you’re ready to get into the spirit of the season, keep reading for 8 Savvy Tips You Need Now to Be Perfectly Prepared for Fall.

 

8 Savvy Tips You Need Now to Be

Perfectly Prepared for Fall

1.      Refresh your wardrobe for Fall

As soon as I’m back from my trip to Paris, priority number 1 is rolling my closet from summer to Fall. That means packing away my sundresses, tanks and shorts and pulling out the sweater dresses and leather pants! Even though I store everything either hanging in a separate closet or cleaned and folded in storage bins, they still sometimes need a little refresh before wearing. I’ll air things out on a hanging rack or do a quick DIY dry clean just to freshen them up.

It also gives me a chance to do a mini closet inventory. Any summer items that are in poor condition or I’ve just fallen out of love with can donated, and any Fall favorites that need some tailoring or repairs can get taken care of before I’m ready to wear them.

2.      Boost your immune system as the weather changes

You probably don’t have to think too much about Vitamin D in the summer since it’s so easy to get the sun in! We get most of our Vitamin D from the sun, so our intake decreases when the weather is colder since we spend most of our time inside during the fall/winter seasons. If you find you are not getting outside much, a Vitamin D supplement can boost your mood and immune system!

3.      Deep clean your house

We do spring cleaning so why not fall? The colder weather this time of year means you’ll naturally be spending more time indoors, so take some time at the start of the season to create a space you’ll love.  Scrub down the areas of your house that are likely to collect germs, like the kitchen and the bathrooms. Go through your cabinets and dust the hard-to-reach places that you may neglect during your normal weekly cleaning.

You can also take some time to make sure your home is prepared for extreme weather conditions that may occur later in the year.  Make sure you have flashlights, batteries, and snow blower and shovel, and basic emergency equipment and medical supplies.

4.      Save and practice some new soup recipes

Cozy season is the perfect time to warm, comforting food. Browse Pinterest for some new soup or stew recipes and if you’ve been eyeing a slow cooker or Instant Pot, now is the perfect time to buy one! I personally can’t wait for lazy, chilly days inside with a bowl of my homemade Instant Pot Chicken Soup.

5. Do some financial planning

This time of year is a great time to review your finances and asses where you are before the end of the year. Take some time to review your debt, savings, and any progress you've made towards financial goals you may have set for yourself in the beginning of 2022. If things look bleak, don't worry too much or get too anxious. Reflection is an important step to start making progress. If you have been lucky enough to make some major money moves or have some financial wins, talk to your accountant or tax preparer to get an estimate of what your tax liability might look like. You'll still have a few months to make adjustments that could reduce your tax burden come April. 

 6. Upgrade Your head-to-toe hydration

The temps start getting cooler and drier in Fall, so now is the time to step up your moisturizing game. Add some hydrating skin care, with a focus on ingredients like hyaluronic acid and collagen. Even though summer is over, that doesn't mean put the sunscreen down. Daily sunscreen use is proven to prevent fine lines, wrinkles, and early signs of aging, as well as reduce the risk of developing skin cancer. 

And when it comes to moisturizing, don't neglect the rest of your body! Swap your lighter summer lotions for rich body butters and ultra-moisturizing oils to keep hydrated from head to toe. And speaking of head - now is a great time to check up on the health of your hair and try a new deep conditioner or moisturizing mask as well. 

7. Switch up your fitness routine

I love my summer workouts, but the slightly cooler temps make me want to do more outdoor fitness. The summer heat is far too oppressive, but a lot of outdoor activities become way more fun in September and October. Things like hiking, walking, or running, or even outdoor calisthenics are a blast when it's not 95 degrees and sunny every day. Plus, if you have end of year fitness goals, or want to prevent holiday weight gain, try a Fall fitness challenge to keep you engaged.  I get a lot of inspiration and ideas from some of my fave fitness YouTubers and looking at local resources for ideas for outdoor calorie burning activities. 

 8.  Use your vacation time

Fall is one of my favorite times to travel. The weather is still warm enough in some of the summer hot spot destinations, but the prices and crowds drop significantly. Plus, it’s cheaper to travel in fall since it’s part of shoulder season, and prices will start to tick up closer to the holidays.

Since Americans notoriously underuse our PTO, the last few months of the year can serve as a friendly reminder to put some vacation days in and use them before it’s too late.

What are you guys most excited about for fall? For me, it’s the change in fashion and the cozy, comforting food!

 Just to recap!

1.      Refresh Your Wardrobe for Fall

2.      Boost Your Immune System as the weather changes

3.      Deep Clean Your House

4.      Save and practice some new soup recipes

5.      Do some financial planning

6.      Upgrade Your head-to-toe hydration

7.      Switch up your fitness routine

8.      Use your vacation time

Check out these posts next:

Fall Beauty 101: How to Look Stunning This Season!

How to Travel More in 2022

5 Easy Ways to Transition Your Style from Summer to Fall

4 Vacation Workout Tips You Need to Stay In Shape on the Road!

 

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8 Pros and Cons You Need to Know About Life in LA

If you’re reading this I’ve left LA! I moved to Los Angeles from New York a few years ago and it was just incredible. But my husband and I are off to our next adventure.

There has been a lot of buzz and negativity about life in LA, but honestly I loved it! I wanted to take some time to share my thoughts on the pros and cons of living in Los Angeles and what you can expect from life in the city.

4 Pros & 4 Cons of Living in LA

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Pro Number 1 - LA Has Incredible Weather

LA has amazing weather, pretty much year round. You will probably hear everyone raving about how great the weather in LA is, and that’s because it seriously is that damn good! It’s almost always sunny, rarely rains, and is a drier heat, which I find much more comfortable than humid weather. 

Pro Number 2 -LA Has Gorgeous Scenery All Year Round 

LA is downright gorgeous! There are palm trees everywhere, epic sunsets, and hills and mountains rising off in the distance. Even if you just drive around randomly it’s super pretty, not like other cities where everything is just flat and ugly. If you live in LA, you’ll want to spend as much time as possible outdoors, soaking up the gorgeous sun and views!

Con Number 1 - The Traffic in LA is Terrible

Speaking of driving around - the traffic in Los Angeles is THE WORST.  A drive that is only a few miles away can easily take close to an hour because of how bad traffic gets on the freeways. And unlike NY or other cities that have rush hours or times you know the traffic will be bad - LA traffic is pretty much trash any time of day. 

Con Number 2 - Cost of Living in LA is High

As much as I love LA, it’s definitely not as affordable as other parts of the country! Depending on where you are coming from, you definitely will experience some sticker shock! I moved to LA from NY, so I actually had the unusual perspective of finding LA cheaper than NY. But that was moving from one of the most expensive cities in the country! If you are moving to LA from probably almost anywhere else, you will have to keep the cost of living in mind. Everything - from rent to gas, to going out and socializing is pricey. And I’m not even going to get into the California state taxes!

Pro Number 3 - LA Is Amazing for Travel

I’m from the East Coast, but I had so much fun traveling around the West Coast when I lived in LA. You can do everything from road tripping up and down the Pacific Coast Highway to catching a quick flight to Hawaii. LA is a stone’s throw from some insane travel hubs, whether you want to fly, drive or catch a train. 

Con Number 3 - LA Has a Lot of Environmental & Social Issues

Not gonna lie, LA has it’s fair share of environmental and social issues you’ll have to deal with if you live here. If you’ve never experienced an earthquake, you definitely will if you move to LA. The forest fires can shut down the city, and even if you don’t live in a part of town where you’ll be impacted by brush fires, the smoke spreads far enough to be hazardous. I lived in DTLA which never had fire exposure, but outdoor restaurants, venues and activities always shut down when there was a big brush fire because of the air quality and smoke related issues. 

LA also has a major homeless problem that only seems to be getting worse. The biggest concentrations are near downtown in Skid Row and in Venice, but you’ll see smaller homeless encampments in almost every park and under every overpass. Hopefully one day the city will find a humanitarian solution to the homelessness crisis, but for now if you are thinking about a move to LA, you need to be aware of it and how it may impact you and which part of town you plan to live in. 

Pro Number 4 - LA is Great for Healthy Living

I definitely got in great shape living in LA, just by nature of the lifestyle. There are great fitness studios with all kinds of dynamic, niche workouts, and plenty of opportunity for outdoor activities that will help keep you in shape. Not to mention the wellness centers, juice bars and healthy restaurants that just make it easier to stick to a healthy diet and lifestyle. 

Con Number 4 - LA is a City with Lots of Competition

LA is a great city, but it’s definitely a competitive one! It was incredibly hard to find a job, and even harder to make new friends. I’m a pretty outgoing personality and before covid, I definitely tried to have a social life. But I found it so hard to make friends! I’ve had people ghost me, influencers I met at events smile in my face then block me the next day, and all kinds of drama trying to make new female friends. I eventually gave up, and then there was covid so I kind of stopped thinking about it, but it was definitely a drag not being able to make female friends the way I did in other cities I moved to. 

If you are thinking about moving to LA or are new in town, let me know in the comments, especially if you have more questions you want me to answer.!



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